Story 1:
Had to tell a white lie to cover for a gd firend… basically, she told her bf that she was meeting me but she went to meet someone else… trust me… I believe 100% that she is faithful to her bf… but… I guess… when you noe someone too well… you will noe wat will happen when you tell them the truth… Q: is that just understanding the person or loving the person too much that you don’t 1 2 hurt the other person… or do you love yourself more… thus, you 1 2 save urself from all the nagging? I guess its an equation that will nv add up… eg.
Loving someone = being truthful
Not wanting to hurt someone = lying to them..
So does it mean by not wanting to hurt someone you love = lying to them… than wat happens to being truthful? Thus, is that wat why there is something call white lie? Q: is white lies invented to make the person who lie feel better about it? I guess you have to be in the person’s shoe to understand what you should do…
There is no right and wrong when it comes to love… but when 1 decides to lie… is it considered wrong le? i think it’s a endless debate on wats right and wrong.. what will you do? Lie and pray that no1 will find out… or tell the truth and hurt the person upfront… Q: when a lie is being told… and its nv being found out… will it… after many years become the ‘truth’? Q: if I don’t tell you something happen.. is it considered lying? I mean… technically, its not I don’t 1 2 tell you… its you did not ask…
If its you… what will you do? how many times can you be truthful and how many times can you lie? I love you that y I have to lie to you… isn’t that very scary? What has our ‘love’ become? Understand each other too well? Knowing what hurts, thus I chose to keep quiet? I am really lost… I guess it really has to depend on the moment…
Once you chose to lie, you should never look back… you should nv regrate no matter wat happens.. i was in all three shoes before… to lie… to be lied at… and to help a friend lie.. which shoe I like the most?
To lie: the only 1 I hurt in the end is myself… even if I regrate.. its only a problem to be faced by me…
To be lied at: if the other part found out… every1 will be hurt… it’s a feeling that every1 hates.. and wat I hate most is that the person who lied to me will be hurt too… I can chose to pretent nothing happens… but can the person who lie do the same? That y I say you should nv regrate nor should you look back…
To help a friend lie: if all goes will…no prob… year later… it may turn out to be ‘the truth’ but if things don’t go the way… every1 will be hurt… isn’t that back to square one?
So after having break it down… which will you chose? For me, it will really have to depend on that moment, wat is needed… for me.. if I can make the person I love feel better… I will rather lie and keep quiet forever… cause I think at times… I noe clearly that if I lie… the person I love will be happy…
I had people asking me… y don’t you fight for the person you love… I guess… unlike some people… I strongly believe that I would like to see the person I like be happy… though at time I believe that I am able to make the person I like happy… but what happens when I see the person sad? I am ready to be the 1 to cause you sadness? Some people call that being a coward… others call it true love… to me… it’s all bullshit… haha…
Story 2:
I noe of a couple who kinda broke up recently.. after being together for 5 years… haha.. sorry if you see this entry.. haha… anyway.. actually I feel kinda sad for both of you… after 5 years… and this in the ending… I mean… if you still like each other… y? or maybe feelings have change? 5 years… its not a short period of time… neither is it long… but I guess I just felt that it’s a pity ba…
I guess that maybe its cases like this… I nv believe that one person is able to love a person forever… or maybe after a long time… than will people understand… loving a person does not = to having to have a ‘status’ with that person… Q: if love a person = setting the person free… than happens to the word “Forever” or “marriage”? is that y people invent divorce?
50 years ago… do peoples love for each other really last forever? Y our ‘love’ now adays start and end so fast? Or is it just back them… there is no such things as divorce… thus people just get use to having some1 by their side of the bed… and hack care about it… maybe now… considering that property is so expensive, even some1 sleeping by your side is also considered taking up too much space? Haha…
Q: what is more sad? 2 person liking each other but cannot be together… or 2 person being together cause they are just not use to watching movies alone?
Q: what is more sad? 單戀 or 暗戀?
Q: If love is nv fair… what will you 1 2 be… the one who loves more… or the 1 who receives more love?
To my 2 friends… thought is a pity… but this may not be the worst outcome.. I mean, if you still can be friends… y not… at least… you still can meet up… say hi… or maybe in the future… who noes… anyway… yar… happy if both of you are happy…
Story 3
I guess a lot of you heard from afew places before… that in this world there are 3 people that will look 100% the same… when this 3 people meet… it will be the end of the world… blah blah blah… all this bullshit… but that day… when I was hearing the radio…
If one day, you break up with someone you really love a lot… and after many years later.. you will like the person… you met the 2nd person that looks 100% like your first love… will you fall for the person…?
Sound romantic? Sounds lame? What will you do? will you chase the person? will you like the person more or lesser than the first? Will you be cheating you urself? I tot for a few days.. if its me.. wat will I do? at first I tot… maybe I will fall the person… but after that.. I felt that… y did I bother to think of that Q.. think about it… its rather bimbotic… it all boils down to liking the person for its looks.. than wat diff does that make you for the SPGs?
Like or loving some1 should be about the person… should be about loving wat the person is a whole.. Don’t you agree? If it’s by looks only… y don’t you go date a playboy calendar? But if that’s the case… than it leaves use with another Q… what about all the people with love at first sight? Is it a term to be used on bimbos only?
Humm… seems like there are a lot of unanswered Qs… will answer them… in the future ba… when I think of an answer for it… or if I happening to face this problems.. haha… so to conclude….
I like you for who you are and you can lie to me cause I will chose not to expose you… but in the end… if I noe… by me lying and regretting in the futher, I could change for your happiness in the end.. I will do it…
Been listening to S.H.E’s - 安静了… not a bad song… but I cannot tahan but to change some of the lyrics…
只剩下钢琴陪我站在这里
梦想中属於我们的婚礼却
成了单人结婚进行曲
在这场爱情角力的拔河里
爱我还是爱你
你选择了自己 wo~
我选择不怪你
撒娇的可爱的
迷人的爱哭的
照片里曾经的都是你喜欢的
如今我还在原地
如今你已不在這裡
你却走回你的记忆
我一個人走不下去
你说我爱你太多就快要把你淹没
你害怕幸福短暂一秒就崩落
分开是一种解脱让你好好的想过
我想要的那片天空
你是不是能够给我
沒有要求要你給我
你说我给你太多却不能给我什麽
分不清激情承诺永恒或迷惑
爱情是一道伤口
我们各自苦痛
讓我一人成熟
沉默是我最后温柔
是因为我太爱你
只剩下钢琴陪我站在这里
梦想中属於我们的婚礼
安静了在我枕边的梦里
我知道相爱原本就不容易
爱不是一场雨
努力就有结局 wo~
撒娇的可爱的
迷人的爱哭的
照片里曾经的都是你爱着你的
连假的泪还温热
却没有人握我的手
我卻不敢再握你手
你说我爱你太多就快要把你淹没
你害怕幸福短暂一秒就崩落
分开是一种解脱让你好好的想过
我想要的那片天空
你是不是能够给我
沒有要求你能給我
你说我给你太多却不能给我什麽
分不清激情承诺永恒或迷惑
爱情是一道伤口
我们各自苦痛
讓我一人成熟
沉默是我最后温柔
是因为我太爱你
I think I am good… I have officially changed this song to a even sadder song… I think I can consider to go write songs le… come on… tell me… my lyrics are better… haha….
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